Showing posts with label university. Show all posts
Showing posts with label university. Show all posts

Monday, 11 January 2016

My first week back to school

It's back to the grind in 2016, despite a great holiday season, reality always comes to find us.
I'm heading back to work and school, both full-time. I'm attending a university for journalism.
Journalism, a profession based in the question and answer of common people- takes up a lot of my "free" time.
Free is a word open for interpretation.

School and work mean heavy scheduling. Deadlines, due dates, and working schedule, even heavier scheduling. Time management has become my biggest friend over the years I've spent in school.

Time management and making a dollar stretch further then it should. Good life skills to acquire when venturing out on your own.

I've attending 3 out of 4 classes (I cut one because of my intense schedule last semester, lesson learned). But since 3 of them are a continuation from last semester, it shouldn't be too painful.

A seminar has been added to my line-up. Seminar that is required for me to graduate with a major in psychology. Unfortunately, I have to do a victory lap, in order to finish my other two majors but such is life.

I'm prepared to work my ass off this semester.

So, here goes.

Here's a picture of my cat in a box.





Monday, 4 January 2016

The Basement Files

Credit to St. Thomas Journalism and Pat Richard

Hosts: Cody Peters and Nathalie Sturgeon


I'm here

Blogging hasn't actually been my thing lately. For the past year or so I've gone off the blogging grid.

For a number of reasons. School, mainly. Work, too. I've since joined the fast food life and it's treating me, well... like a fast food job.

So many things have happened in the months I've been away from my blog. I will be updating journalism pieces I've written, as well as much more.

I've experience many new things, and I've had to over come some challenges. But, hey, that's life.

Meet Meredith, my newest addition:


She's quite the little monster. But I love her nonetheless, we're hoping to make more additions to our fur family in the future. She's energetic and she likes carpets. Licks herself often, and runs into doors. Deficits yet to be determined. 

I've actually travelled. Yes, shocking, I know. Not far, not as far as some but I've been to places I thought I would never go. 
This summer was a summer to rival all summers. I went to PEI and Nova Scotia. And they were both experiences that have given me a tremendous insight into the things I enjoy doing. 


I spent the weekend in my first hotel stay in P.E.I. and I spent several weekends in Nova Scotia. As my significant others parents live there.
I also went on hiking adventures. Something I have never done before. It's exciting. It's challenging, because I do not have the "shape" I require to do long hikes. Shame on me.
But I did a couple of different trails this summer and a national park where I'm from.







This was a hike in Moosehorn and Laverty Falls. A long hike. 8km, from start to finish. But we got some amazing views.


Photo credit for the second one goes to my significant other. He takes amazing pictures. The scenery is amazing.

I should note that there is someone new in my life and he is amazing! Couldn't have asked for a better person in my life. He makes me very happy, but he doesn't like social media so much. So I'm going to respect his wishes regarding that.

School is going well (there will be journalism posts to follow), but yes, it takes a lot of work to be a journalism student. A lot of time an effort goes into putting together journalism video. A lot of work goes into putting together radio and print.
I've got one more year to my degree and their are a lot of changes coming in the future.

I don't like change. At all. But, here's to the future and all it holds.



Monday, 2 February 2015

Off-Campus Survival Rules

If you live off-campus, chanced are when you leave your house in the morning you literally have to bring your entire life with you! In the morning, you pack everything necessary as if you are moving out of your house and you head to school (usually for the entire day).
So why not make it easier on yourself? Here's a list of tips to help you deal with the complexity and inconveniences of living away from campus.
1. Prioritize
We tend to overpack - literally. We overpack just in case. After all, you never know when an emergency might happen. So at night before bed, make a list of things you really need. You need your books, your lunch, computer (only if necessary), writing utensils and extra snacks, your bus pass, and your wallet. That covers your basics and leaves no extra stuff to add to the weight you have to carry.
An extra tip: if you are not expressly told to bring your textbook, don't bring it. They are massive and just not necessary!
2. Separate into different bags
Personally, I have two bags I carry to school. One is an over-the-shoulder, and the other is my book bag. This also helps distribute the weight. I use the over-the-shoulder for my computer, my lunch, and my water bottle, plus any small items I need like hand sanitizer, hand cream, and my wallet. I use my backpack solely for school books. This allows you to separate you weight and makes things much easier to carry!
3. Take the bus 
Yes, that’s right. Take the bus. I live a ten minute walk away from campus, but some days you just need to take the bus. But, for those of you who cannot or do not have the option to walk, take the bus. You pay for a bus pass, so use it like your life depends on it! Even though the bus schedule is hard to read and understand, take the time sit down and know the times and where you're headed.
4. Always take the earlier bus 
Speaking of buses! This will save you from the embarrassing walk into class late. Say you have class at 5:00 PM and you can take the 10N Carlisle to campus; catch the bus at 4:00 PM.  The bus will get to campus at 4:35 PM, so you have extra time to get yourself organized and prepared. I've made the mistake of catching the later bus many times - just avoid this situation as best as possible (and say good-bye to sleeping in).
5. Dress warmly
Yes, the bus is convenient, warm and fast. But sometimes it’s late. This time of year, you may find yourself standing out in the cold for a little longer then you expect. Always have good waterproof boots. I recommend wool-lined boots that can withstand -32°C weather. You can find boots like these at SoftMoc.
You'll also need a good jacket that can withstand the strong wind and the freezing temperatures. You will want a jacket that is extra-long and covers your back. Book bags tend to make your coats ride up, leaving your back exposed. You can find these at relatively good price at Walmart and will last you a couple of years. Of course, a scarf, hat, and mitts are necessary too. Do your best to avoid having your face over-exposed. Sometimes wrapping your face with an extra scarf can prevent that ice-cold cheek pain.
6. Pack a well-balanced meal
For this tip, I’ll just give you a recipe I would make to take with me for a long day on campus. This meal gives you protein and vitamins so you can deal with a long day on campus:
  • 1 cup of white rice (cooked)
  • 1 boneless/skinless chicken breast
  • 1 cup of frozen vegetables
  • 1 ½ tbsp. of teriyaki sauce (or sauce of your choice)
Directions:
Cook the chicken and rice separately. Cook veggies in the microwave and combine with the chicken once it’s cooked. Add rice and sauce.
Some snack suggestions: an apple (with some peanut butter for extra protein), two granola bars (one for now, one for later), a dessert (perhaps a cookie), and a refillable water bottle. Finally, make sure you carry some cash on you in case you need a little something extra!

Wednesday, 29 October 2014

Where I've been, what I've been up to?

It's been months, blog readers.

Literally months!

I've been terribly busy since I returned to university and it's a big year. My third to be exact.

Third year has brought many challenges. My health, a huge course load, theater, volunteering and work.

This year I have put myself out there in the world, and, frankly it wasn't as scary as I thought.



See I have been very social this year. I've even gone on my first university pub crawl. It was a lot of fun.

I've gone to a place call Clay Cafe! And, I made crafty art. Disclaimer: I did not make the mug, just painted it.

One of the few things I did participate in in high school was theater, so, this year I decided with great enthusiasm for the theater company at my university. So far, it's been a lot of work but a tremendous experience that I am enjoying greatly. And yes, stage managing is a huge job!

I have rejoined the work force at the same place I was before I returned home for the summer, it has been super rewarding as well.

It was a brief introduction to what I have been up to lately.
I will attempt each week to post something from now on. I promise!

Friday, 7 March 2014

A day in the life of...

A figure since my blog is about a day in the life of, it should have more post about what I do in the run of a day.

Today is an unusual day. I'm on March Break from university.

So, I will tell you what I am doing and then what I should be doing.

 11:30 
Wake up
Usually on a Friday up at 10:45 

Today, I started my day sick. Violently sick. Flu from hell sick.

So, I grabbed some of this newly discovered soy beverage that I am in love with.


12:30 pm -
Usually, on my way to my only class of the day Developmental psychology. 
Made a cup of regular tea and started on homework I have been procrastinating on for awhile.

2:30 -
Usually I'm just getting out of class, going home for the day. 

I folded the last load of laundry I brought home. Lets just say I used a lot of my parents laundry soap.
Yep, at 20 years old I still wash my laundry at home. Broke gurl, over here!

4:30
Supper time
This is usually later especially when I am back in the city. I get occupied with other things. 


This time it was salmon. A rarity when my Dad cooks, but when he does it is amazing.


5:00 
Selfie time. As a blogger, I take pictures on a regular basis. Trying to cut down on the ones of myself. 

Usually I am not doing to much regularly. Procrastinating the work I have to do.


In affect, I've discovered just how boring my life is. Ha!

What are you doing during the day? Share with me your fun activities and I will try them!

Tuesday, 4 March 2014

Keep things consistent!

Is anyone still out there?

I've been seriously neglecting this blog mostly because I have not had much to post about. I switched phones. Making it harder to transfer my photos. I've also been busy, deciding my life.

- Illness:
* I've been super sick lately. I was in the hospital for a few days. Boo. But, I am feeling quite a bit better now.

- School:
* Midterms have taken over my academic life - but hey, it's that's time of year. Currently, I am on March (I was fortunate enough not to have a strike this year) and when I return, I have three more.
* Getting into psychology was a blessing in disguise. Now, just to figure out what I want to do with psychology.
* Bio-psych is where I am leaning. (possible university transfer)

- Work:
* I am still working at the job I told you about in my earlier post. Not much hours.
* Looking for a second summer job. (hint, hint guys!)

- Life in general:
* Being on vacation is nice. I'm using some of my time to relax but also using it to catch up on some work, getting ahead on things I know I can get ahead on.
* Leonard and I are still very happy. March is our sixth month together. Thankfully he still puts up with my craziness.
* I am making a commitment to get involved in things I like.
* Looking at an all girls sorority, and getting back into dance.
* I am also making a commitment to the blog. Because I would like post a lot more. Keep things consistent.

Friday, 29 November 2013

Consent causing Confusion ©

Consent causing Confusion
Nathalie Sturgeon ©
                       
Consent is sexy? Try confusing. A video from St. Mary’s university was posted on Instagram, where students chanted “Y is for your sister, O is for oh so tight,  U is for underage, and N is for no consent  G is for grab that ass.” and “Saint Mary’s boys we like em’ young.” Universities in Fredericton have been promoting the idea of consent, the catch phrase is that “consent is sexy.” The problem is, the idea of consent is not well understood.
“Consent is largely misunderstood due to the fact it has not been a part of our conversation until recently,” said Maggie Crain, Fredericton Sexual Assault Center counsellor. Crain says that consent is not a conversation that should happen just before sex but rather a continual respect that follows through the act of intercourse. The centre is launching an education campaign to try to clear up the confusion.
When people in a relationship, or hook up, have different ideas of how the night will go, awkward situations can arise,” said Sam Titus, a St. Thomas University student. “Which I find unfortunate since it can be so simple to just ask, but most people are too uncomfortable to just ask,” said STU student Sam Titus.
“The confusion is probably situational, like if someone is drunk, that’s probably where consent gets confusing,” says STU student Rebecca Bonner.
“Consent is in some situations grey, unclear. It should be black and white, but it’s not,” said UNB student Nicholas Richard.
As the year creeps on, more and more students find themselves in situations that can at best be regrettable and at worst dangerous. “Consent is not a case by case thing, consent is always there always needs to be obtained,” said Crain.
Misconceptions abound in popular media. The husband of Melissa Gorga from the television show Real Housewives said this about what women want: “Men, I know you think your woman isn’t the type who wants to be taken. But trust me, she is. Every girl wants to her hair pulled once in awhile. If your wife says ‘no’ turn her around and rip her clothes off. She wants to be dominated.”
When asked by the host the day-time talk show Bethenny if she ever denies him in bed he says “she fights it, but I always win.”
 “Consent is sexy” is a way to catch students’ eye and start a dialogue. However STU third year student Megan Doucet says “It has not told me much about consent.”
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 “In essence, it needs to be engrained into the mainstream dialogue to the point where it is common knowledge and not confusing,” said Crain. Promoting things like the Dating Basics program, a program that teaches university students about a variety of things concerning consent and sex, have been put in place by a coordinator at UNB. The FSACC is planning on asking students at the three universities in Fredericton to participate in a video about consent. The aim of this video is to clear the smoke surrounding this issue.
Crain suggested that universities should give a mandatory tutorial to all first year students entering into university. 
The FSACC isn’t just targeting university students. A program tailored to female students in grade 8 in Fredericton has been in place for numerous years. As well, grade 10 female students are also given this empowerment program with more tough explicit language. FSACC is now aiming to pilot a male program facilitated in the same way except by a male counsellor.


In some situations students feel the pressure to perform or be ridiculed. The fear of disappointment can sometimes cloud the idea that consent is what really is important. “Of course, men don’t want to disappoint their partner’s by appearing “soft” or non-powerful in the bedroom, and women don’t want to disappoint their partners by not going through whatever activity they want to do, even if they are nervous or uncomfortable,” said Crain. 

Journalism ©

As I end my first semester of second year, there is a second ending I must tell you about and that is the end to my journalism career. I was encourage to put my work online.

One story is currently under revising. But, here goes.


Something Fresh?
            The smell of deli meet fills the noses of any curious grocery shopper. One could only imagine the brightly light, fancy stainless steel deli counter would be a prized selling point. A man stands dressed a khaki coloured uniform his back bent over the counter his eyes focused completely on the machine in front of him. The stainless steel items shine like diamonds under the huge oversized lights above. The man places his hand on the meat slicer in front of him, his hand covered in calluses and cuts, his knuckles white as he slides the blade across the lump of ham. As he slices the meat folds into a pile and customers turn their heads at the smell. The man wipes his forehead with the sleeve of his uniform. A small sigh escapes his chapped lips. A tall man with a pair of green knee-length shorts and a grey shirt approaches the deli department. His hair in an awkward comb over and a deep authoritative voice signals for the deli clerk. The deli clerk leaves his station, looks at the man, and says “something fresh today, sir?” a smile stretches across his tired face

                                                                Washing It Away
            A large grey cloud starts to approach overhead. The trees sway as if dancing to a soft melody. A bright flash covers the sky. Seconds later, a loud boom follows like horses hooves trampling the sky.
            Two young Asian men run out of their apartment building. One wearing striped multi-coloured pants with a brown polo shirt. The other with a black shirt, its sleeves rolled up about quarter length. His were jeans dark wash, almost black with white stitching on the pockets. As they turn to look up at the sky, their eyes light up just as the skies minutes before. One of the boys has a curious look on his face as a crease forms between his thick, un-plucked eyebrows. His friend’s smile stretched across his face, his eyes sparkling with the idea of something so amazing.

            They pull out their next generation smart phones; the next one larger than the first. Sitting next to a large row of cars in the parking lot, they create flashes of their own as they take pictures of themselves in the storm. A fury of constant flashes of lighting and thunder roll as their excitement is washed of their faces in mere seconds as a gush of rain begin to cover everything, including them.

 You Don’t Stand A Chance
            The tall but small featured woman stands hovering over the stove. Her hair bouncing with the light shifts she makes across the kitchen floor. A small creek moans out as she moves. She un-wraps the air tight package of blood red meat, and slaps them onto the frying pan covered in cooking oil, and golden shimmer reflects of the pan onto her face, hunger filling her face. Adding a mixture of finely sliced garlic, tear invoking oozing onions, and spices, she turns on the burner, and a sizzle so faint it could only be heard to someone paying attention. She shuffles her feet across the floor. She pulls out bottles of bright red ketchup, and yellow mustard, and buns of bread. She shifts her mouth, noticing the wetness inside as her taste buds ache. These flat shriveled up pieces of meat stand not chance against her bright white teeth. 

Human Sexuality
A tall Russian woman stands in a room of crowed teenagers. Their ears peeled for the being statements about the topic of Human Sexuality. As if they do not know already. A large grey podium blends in the wall behind it, if not for the professor bent over a stack of papers, would be unrecognizable. Students grow restless awaiting her roll call. Her short curly white hair and ribbons of grey within it bounces up as she starts calling students names. Her accent as thick as cake batter struggles to pronounce the Canadian names. As she comes upon a name there is suddenly a furrow in her brow, she moves her lips as if practicing before saying it aloud. It slips out of her mouth. She smiles, as the student corrections and moves on. The names flow on like a sea of school fish, blending in, turning into muffled words by other students. The energetic professor shoots up and says in a high pitched voice, “Letz talk about the sex!” The room fell silent. 

Rain
            The air feels damp. The doors swing open wide to the sound of raindrops hitting the ground like pin needles. My hands fumble trying to open the umbrella to protect myself from the shower of water. Feeling like an ant under fire, I pursue the path towards home. My feet are sore, and shining with the drops of rain. They are the temperature of death. Waterfalls of rain cascade down the sidewalks. My home is in sight. And, suddenly, I cannot hear the speeding of cars, the raining hit my blood red umbrella, the voices around me, for I know warmth awaits me on the comforts on my vintage flower love seat. 

Jinglers - Outdated 
The place is hidden to the back. The door creeks open as if it had not been greased in years. A woman with wire blonde hair stood with a sea of clothes surrounding her. Her sweater allowed her to blend in among the racks of used clothes. If not for the ribbons of grey hair she would have been missed all together. A young blonde hair dashes from place to place. She is watched by the mid-forties couple browsing at the back. The atmosphere at Jingles is much like the clothes, used and out-dated. 

Class Question Period 

A short, plump woman with fluorescent white hair sits at the end of a row red velvet seats. She rips out her coil note book that has pages torn from it, and the cover bent from shoving it into her backpack. She pulls out a pen that flies apart at her intense grasp. And she waits, with her pink tinted prescription glass, for the professor to begin. As the professors monotone voice begins to explain the varying complications that is the Canadian Constitution, an arm raises from the end of the red line. The professors’ eyes quickly swing away from the white haired lady and he continues to mumble the workings of Section 92 of the Constitution. He barely finishes his sentence, and a cracked voice struggles to put force behind her voice, to no surprise her voice picks up. She directs her question, and has an authority to her voice that commands an answer, not matter how many times she repeats the same question. The professor, lets a sigh, and a brief pause, go before he addresses the woman, she sparks back with another question. The cycle continues for the remaining hour and eighteen minutes. 

Homeward Bound

The air is crisp. The temperature requires the winter attire. Fall recedes into the past, and winter chills us to bone. A tall, brown haired girl bundled up in her parka and homemade knitted hat rounds the corner of Prospect Street. Her nose is as red as the stop light above her head. The headlights of cars make the line go on forever. People bundled up in their heated vehicles, showing no compassion for the girl who resembles Rudolf. Despite the cold, she soldiers on. Homeward bound.  

Final Journal of my career!
The phone in front of me lights up, as it does so often. It’s my best friend. “Wanna come see a waterful?” My eyes widen. “Yep, come get me.” A body sits at the steering wheel, hands covered by black driving gloves. His black and green toque covers his head. The girl beside him, he long blond hair flows from her elastic. Her jacket is a dark green. I bounce into the back seat and head for the most scenic drive to a place I have never been. The wind hits our faces as we leave car. The rocks ahead look step, but a quick glance to each other. And we know. The incline is steep, but welcoming, trees on either side, small tall, some large and burly, some average but lovely, kind of like passing people. In the distance you can hear the swish, and crash of water. The scene creates a flip in my stomach. Looking up the water falls with great power and authority. Only to be frozen in the end by nature. Among the greatest forces of nature; there stand three.

Credit to Nathalie Sturgeon ©
St. Thomas University

Monday, 23 September 2013

Because they're meant to be that way.

It's been awhile since I've posted. For that, I apologize, life for me as you know can sometimes get a little complicated. Things are broken, mended and reestablished. In a matter of mere weeks. All the change just means you need to settle into things that are normal!

For example; I woke up recently, to discovered my nose piercing had completely grown over during the night. Fantastic! I realized that meant I was in for a painful visit to my local tattoo and piercing shop. To say the least, I do not wish to relive the horrifying popping experience I had, ever again.

However, my nose ring looks quite amazing.

Also, among other things I've done was update my iPhone. Though 2nd generation, my iPhone is old. I did upgrade to the newest version handed out by our friends at Apple.

It's a weird mix between Android and Apple. Faced with the problem of Android stocks rising they figured in order to maintain their customers base they better do an overhaul of their system. Which, I might add, has not been done, ever. I'm not the biggest fan of the new system. However; I'm warming up to it. Mostly because my iPhone is my first and only child and you will have to have blood running from your eyes before I'll ever switch.

I have since reconnected with some of my favorite places in the city. It's night to walk into the old coffee shops and be recognized as a "regular" whatever that term might entail. You can quietly sit with your favorite latte (currently, Pumpkin Spice from Starbucks!) and read the paper. And it's equivalent to a rocking Friday night. (for me, that is!)

After a long day of homework (I don't like to use that term mostly because I'm an adult in every other aspect of my life, and then bam, homework, I'm back in middle school) I like to sit down with some comfort food and of course a can (or two) of diet pepsi and watch one of my favorite shows.

A very concerning event happened upon my campus. A apparent gun-man showed up on my campus. Scary as it was, the situation was quickly resolved. And the investigation is on-going.

Here are some pictures; well, because I could. And I'm apparently more calm in the face of danger then I should be.


You often times will find comfort in the most wonderful of things. But surprisingly the things you never expect.

Like walks home at night.

Or raindrops on the roof of a car.

Or in taking silly pictures with someone you care about more then yourself.


I apologize for the lighting in these photos. 

You can make your life as happy as you want to be. And I've learned that recently. That, in time, you will grow away from your childish ways, you will learn that not everything in this world will be bad, and in time, things will come together - because they're meant to be that way.

~ N 

Tuesday, 3 September 2013

Lets just say I locked this place tight.

Though my school week hasn't officially started I have been quite busy. My official move in day was Sunday, and that was a rough night. I spent in my apartment alone, as all other three roommates were either gone or not moved in.

Lets just say I locked this place tight. 

For an entire weekend my room was a pile of boxes and a new mattress that laid in plastic over the boxes. So messy was a good word. When I finally arrived on Sunday after noon, I started to unload a very large amount of stuff. Like literally, I have too much stuff. 

My room has finally started to come together. Posters and paintings included.





After a few days of spending time alone in the new apartment. I was reunited with my very close friends.

Vanessa, Kaden and Emma! It's been four months since we've seen each other. 

We spent the day running around looking for an open liquor store for a ceremonial bottle of wine - and grocery store to stock up on food for homemade enchiladas. Which where delicious, I might add.



And today, which happens to be Tuesday, my best friend Lindsay is returning to the city. She lives not far from my apartment. And this year we are hoping to go on many adventures throughout the city. Lindsay's birthday is tomorrow and we'll be having a home cooked meal at my place. After she has a dazzling day with friends.

So be watching for your introduction to Lindsay!


Good luck to all people returning to school this year!
~ N 


Friday, 30 August 2013

Mom chuckled as did I and said...

Today was a very hectic day. I moved all my stuff back into the city! 

I had a rough start to the day.

1. We couldn't find the landlord's office and almost missed them, luckily I had their number and resolved the issues.
2. I couldn't get the door to lock on the new apartment. Thankfully, my roommate manged to show me a little trick to get it to work.
3. We went looking for a bed, unfortunately we waited to long to buy a futon and there was none left. So we opted for a twin bed. That needs to be delivered on Sunday. (Lack of a truck)

It was extremely hot today, so that made for the moving extremely hard. I also went in for a new validated ID, and information on the new student loan process, which by the way has had me pulling my hair out since mid-June. Thankfully, I'll have it all sorted out on Tuesday.

My roommates are very lovely people and I'm excited to have some company every now and then, along with my closest friends and best friend Lindsay around all the time. It gets lonely living alone.

Today was the first step towards my second year of university and let me tell you that it's overwhelming. I recently visited a local convenience store.  A woman I knew since I was only ten was behind the counter, and I asked her for boxes. She quietly asked my mother "what grade I was in".

Mom chuckled as did I and said "In her second year of university"

The woman slightly taken aback told me a story that I remember vaguely, "I remember you came in when you were little not yet of age and you're mother was buying pull tabs and you wanted to pull on. And you pulled it and you won a hundred dollars. And said you were your mothers lucky charm. Seems like yesterday" she said.

It makes you realize that things pass quickly, and in the blink of an eye. You can have grown and turning twenty and in your second year of university and not even remember how you got there.

It's been a wonderful, traumatizing, life changing life I've lived. And it doesn't stop here!

What has changed for you? What memories do you remember from your childhood? 
~ N 

Wednesday, 28 August 2013

Crossing my fingers on this one

Pre-warning this post will not have very many pictures! It'll have none. I just want to tell you how things are going.

It would appear the sun is shining in my corner of the boxing ring. So basically without all the stupid vagueness my life has turned around for the better.

It happened in a few processes really over a four month span. It started rocky, which should be no surprise consider the events of my year. I had no job, I had no social life, I rarely left my house, and I was very depressed. All those things leading to the last.

Then after a set of very revealing conversations, I discovered this weren't actually what they appeared to be. Now, that store is much more then I would care to share. Since then, it's been up!

I have reconnected with someone very special to my future, and it would seem that despite the road we took was filled with a lot of huge holes, we are managing to do things right and both of us are happy. You might see this person on my blog in the future, so keep an eye out!

I am moving back to my favourite city, and school soon. Like in the next day or so. Though finances are a bit rocky, I now have faith that stuff like that will work out. And hopefully in time to pay the bills. (crossing my fingers on this one)

I guess a few things I've learned this whole month is
1. Things aren't always what they seem. 
2. People will lie to you, so remember who you SHOULD trust. 
3. Love rekindles, even when you think you don't deserve it
4. Life will turn around, no matter what curve balls it wants to throw at you. 

Has anything turned around for you lately?
~ N 

Wednesday, 21 August 2013

Tips on packing!

It's the time of year again. Back to school, whether you're in elementary, middle, high or college/university, the days are coming to end. For me, it's packing, lugging, lifting and tearing time. So, here are some helpful hints for packing up your things.

1. Pack in stages
This is important because if you do it all at once or leave it to the last minute, things are carelessly forgotten or even worse things may get broken. Set aside at least four or five days dedicated to packing and collecting your supplies and belongings.

2. Get enough boxes/totes
Every year this is problem for me. Either I take too many boxes or not enough. Make sure you have a sufficient amount.

3. Plan ahead
This probably should be number one. But these are not in order of importance. Take the time to make a list of items you know you'll need. A helpful tip might be taking an inventory of things you brought home ensuring you pack at the things you came home with. Keeping track of that makes the whole situation a lot easier.

4. Pack efficiently and effectively
Making sure that there is not much in your boxes is as important as if there is not enough. Packing the appropriate amount is important. This ensures that when the lifting, lugging and tear part comes about you're not straining or hurting yourself.

5. Properly pack certain items. 
Make sure that all your items are properly packed. For example, glass and breakable items should have paper or paper towel wrapped around them with plenty of extra cushion around them in case a box may fall in the process. My rule of thumb is double wrap paper towel and securely wrap again with a towel.

6. Take breaks
This is important if you're doing the actual moving in. This year I have a large number of furniture items needing to be moved. If you feel tired, or hot, or hurt, stop and make sure you're rested. Especially in this hot sun.

7. Making packing fun
Though packing is probably one of the things I hate the most. Make it fun, do it with you mom, grab some of your closet friends and make an assembly line. Grab a bottle of wine, and put some things in some boxes. And be ready for the unload. Better get two bottles of wine!

Good luck in your new school year, everyone!
~ N 

Sunday, 18 August 2013

I don't mean to gloat but...

It's been a good weekend! I leave for school in about two weeks. Seems like my parents see it more as me sitting on death row and wish to experience all the fun in these last two weeks as they possibly can. Guess they miss me more then they admit. (insert winking face here)

My dad doesn't work weekends, however he works long days that start at 3 a.m. and involved some rough woods work. So even though he is tired he tries to make the best of the weekends.

Today, we went to one of a those great restaurants that make quality food but are seriously undervalued. Technically, it's more of a canteen/dairy bar.

We first went at the attempt to get ice cream. But we got a little meal first. It was honestly the best cheeseburger and fries I have ever had.

P.S. I got the ice cream too...

Little fact about me. I have a stomach the size of a 40 year old man.

Afterwards we stopped up to pick up supplies I needed for moving back...namely ass-wipe. Or rather toliet paper.

Yesterday was spent washing and waxing vehicles. Not as nice as what I did next. But I was definitely proud of the finish product. I also learned to parallel park - and had an accident with another vehicle. Good news is it was my own, and no one was hurt.

After we returned from our adventure into the city. We headed to the river. Honestly one of the most beautiful places on earth.

 Remember kids and everyone else for that matter - wear your life jacket always. 



It was the first trip I had taken with the motor on the back of my Dad's boat. So I took a causal excited selfie!

 Please excuse my hair...


I don't mean to gloat but I did the detailing on the boat we're in! I gloated, guys, sorry. 

As I go to embark on my second year of university, things are starting to pick up around my house. Boxes, and last minute buying. But I'm glad me and my family manage to find time to slow down and spend time together.

What are you doing to spend time with your family? 
~ N