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Wednesday, 2 March 2016

Q&A with Kate Lately!

Kate Lately is a fashion blog produced by Katherine Lutes a St. Thomas grad. She graduated last year and has been blogging for quite some time. She talked about her blog and the things she loves, like fashion and writing.
By Nathalie Sturgeon



Q: What is your blog about?
A: My blog started out as purely fashion based, but has expanded into a fashion and lifestyle blog. It is my outlet to share with the world things I love, products I've enjoyed using, outfits I just can't wait to share and anything else that I feel inspired to write about. It's my little space on the Internet.

Q: How did you get into fashion?
A: Fashion has always been a part of my life. I grew up with two older sisters who loved fashion and watching them inspired me every day. Once I was old enough to use the Internet, I was constantly looking at celebrities on the best dressed list and watching shows such as "What Not to Wear" or "Project Runway". I don't remember not having fashion in my life and always knew I wanted it to be a part of my future.

Q: How did you get into blogging?
A: Along with fashion, I've always loved to write. There are always so many ideas and words running through my mind. When I entered university, I started to read other fashion blogs and began to research how they were created. While I had always thought about having my own blog, I never thought I could do it. My mom was (and always has been) my biggest fan. She was the one who encouraged me to start my own blog, even if she was my only reader! When it came time for me to decide to expand into YouTube...it was her once again encouraging me to take the leap.

Q: What kind of things inspire you to write?
A: I get inspiration from so many places. I'm constantly being inspired by people around me, whether in real life or via the internet. I love to see people using "trends" and mixing them with their own personal style. I'm also inspired by travelling and exploring the world around me. My family and friends are always inspiring me as well. Whether I snap a photo of my nephew running through a park or hear a beautiful piece of inspiration spoken by my best friend, it can inspire me to want to share it with the world. I truly believe inspiration should be a part of every day life.

Q: Who, if anyone has inspired your fashion sense, and why?
A: I'm not sure one person has inspired my fashion sense, but I believe my fashion is pieces of many people around me infused with my own personality. The ladies in my family have always been so fashionable and beautiful, I take a lot of my inspiration from them. We, as Christian women, find it an exciting challenge to be fashion forward, yet modest so that we do not conform to the sensual ideals of today's world. 
When it comes to celebrity inspiration, I have a few favourites that I often find myself taking ideas from. These ladies include Victoria Beckham, Blake Lively, Princess Kate and Perrie Edwards. My favourite brands also provide me inspiration, brands such as Kate Spade, Alice & Olivia and Topshop.

Q: You have a background in communications, how has that helped you write your blog?
A: My background in communications did not help in writing my blog, in fact it was the other way around. Writing my blog helped me to realize that communications would be a great path for me. Social media is the main connection between my blog and my degree. Learning more about etiquette on social media and how to network really helped to take my blog to the next step. I just so enjoy writing on my blog and knew that if I could spend my life doing something I loved this much, I would always be happy.

Q: What kind of things do you hope to write about in the future?
A: I hope my blog grows with me. I hope I continue to write about fashion and lifestyle, maybe even expanding into weddings, relationships and children when the time comes. I believe my blog is a reflection of who I am as a person and so it should grow as I grow. Although, I hope to never lose my passion for all things clothes, makeup and shoes!


Q: Tell me about a typical outfit you might wear/write about on your blog?
A: A typical outfit on my blog...that's a hard one. I tend to wobble back and forth between more dressy, sophisticated outfits or trendy, comfortable outfits. I think one of my most "typical" and favourite posts was a collab done with my friend, Maddie, on CassidyLou.com. We both styled jean jackets and I paired my jacket with a tulle dress from Forever 21 and my old prom shoes! I love re-using old clothing or accessories to give them new life. It was really cool to see how I'd gone from wearing those sandals with my prom dress, to wearing them with denim and tulle for an everyday outfit. I'm not sure I have a "typical" outfit, but every outfit I post is based on what I love to wear, what I think is beautiful and I can assure you I dress for no one other than myself. I also try to show other people that you don't have to be a model or a stick figure to look beautiful. I'm a curvy girl and I can still be fashion forward. It's an important message and one I'm proud to share.


Q: If you could give anyone advice about fashion, what would it be?

A: Advice on fashion...well there's a lot I've heard over the years. While I think it's important to stay true to yourself, I believe that is more of a piece of life advice than fashion advice. My favourite piece of advice is to try something new. When I started my blog, I was very safe with my fashion choices. Since then, I have stepped outside the box and tried trends I never thought I'd be able to pull off. Of course, some failed, but some are now my favourite outfits! Of course, when trying new trends, never spend a lot of money on the brand names. Save your expensive purchases for timeless pieces that will last you years. Hit up thrift stores or department stores to experiment with new trends. Once you figure out what you love, then you can go back and purchase better quality items. It's about balance, budgeting and a lot of fun!

It's not like it is in the movies

So, here’s the thing. We all want that perfect relationship. We all want skipping in a meadow, into a field of unbelievable bliss. But it’s never like that.

No one stands outside your window with beat box playing romantic music.

No one stands in the rain outside your house.  

It’s not like it is in the movies.

I may sound like a bit of a relationship Grinch. But isn’t it better to face reality?

Yeah… that’s what I thought.

Relationships are work. Work you really love. Or love to hate.

There is a show that I watch religiously. It’s probably familiar to you. It’s called Grey’s Anatomy.
Meredith and Derek’s relationship (the main couple) is perfect. Perfect in the sense they have had the ups and downs, they have loved each other, and hated each other and despite all that they love each other, through a plane crash, her trying to drown herself, and eventually, spoiler alert, Derek dies, and leaves Meredith.

But her words, “pick me, choose me, love me” resonate with me.
She built him a house of candles.
It’s the kind of relationship that gives us over the top ideas about what our relationship should be.
I think we want to live in that fantasy world; we want to be a part of something that makes us feel special and alive, but that’s so far from reality, we can only see it happen from the outside of a screen. .

You fight, and things get complicated, and messy. Like you had a kid that coloured your wall with non-erasable marker.  

Some arguments and disagreements bare the weight of 10 tons.

Some arguments are forgivable.

Some are not forgivable.  

We all hope deep down that our relationships will be perfect, that we’ll plan the perfect wedding on our Pinterest website, and we’ll get exactly every detail right.

But sometimes our relationship changes and we aren’t prepared. And we do not feel that it’s fair or even right. Your feelings might be different than your partner’s. Someone told me recently, what’s meant to be will be.

Not everything works out. Not everything is perfect. And even if you think that you have ruined everything, you probably haven’t. You just have to realize that people aren’t perfect and it’s not like it is in the movies.

Andthese days, friends with benefits attitudes rule relationships. Like meaningless sex and one-night stands are the key to all our commitment problems.

A drunken night where two bodies grind against each other in the hopes of attaining some sort of bliss.

Tinder rules the world of millennials, common TV shows now include them for simple humour. Yet we are filled with romantic ideas that are out of this world.

Yes, but that’s better than creepy Pinterest girl right?

Perhaps I’ve spent too much time thinking about it, wanting it; wanting the perfect relationship that only exist in movies.

The little girl inside me who pictured I’d meet the right guy and it would all just fall into place is gone now.

I’ve grown up. I’ve learned.

Relationships are hard work. The kind of work you love. And of course, sometimes hate.

But, let’s get real. You’re not Leonardo DiCaprio and I’m not Kate Winslet. It’s not going to happen that way. And its not like that was a happy ending


And as for how my story ends, we’ll I’ll have to get back to you on that one.